About Me
Hi, I’m Cathy. Founder of Becoming Her and Natural Breathwork.
For as long as I can remember, I felt as though I didn’t quite fit.
I spent years trying to work out who I needed to be in order to belong, to be accepted, to feel valued and enough.
Like many women, I became very good at shaping myself around different roles and becoming the version of myself I thought other people needed.
The trouble is, the longer we spend trying to become someone else, the easier it is to lose touch with who we really are.
Learning to come back to myself
Travelling solo in my twenties changed something in me. It opened up my intuition and deepened my self-awareness.
And, for the first time, I stopped trying so hard to fit in. Exploring tarot, and later, yoga, meditation and eventually breathwork taught me something I still return to every day: how to come back to myself
They helped me recognise when I’d drifted away from myself, when I was looking outside myself for certainty, or believing someone else must know what was best for me.
Again and again, I discovered that the deeper, quieter part of me already knew.
It simply needed enough space to be heard.
Why I created Becoming Her
Over the years, I’ve realised that many women arrive at exactly the same place.
Not because they’ve failed.
Because they’ve spent years becoming who they believed they needed to be.
Building careers.
Raising families.
Supporting partners.
Holding everything together.
When you’ve lived like that for long enough, it’s easy to lose sight of your own needs, your own voice and the woman you’re still becoming.
That’s why Becoming Her isn’t about becoming somebody new.
It’s about creating the space to reconnect with yourself, trust what you already know, and begin living in a way that reflects who you really are.
What I hope women leave with
I don’t want you to leave our work together with another set of techniques or someone else’s answers.
I want you to leave trusting yourself enough to make the decisions you’ve been putting off.
To stop second-guessing yourself.
To say no without guilt and yes to the things that genuinely matter.
To feel calmer in your own mind, clearer about what you want, and more present in the life you’ve worked so hard to build.
To wake up feeling that your life fits who you are now – not who you used to be, or who you thought you needed to become.
Because there is something incredibly freeing about trusting yourself enough to build a life that feels like your own.